The Date of Chance

You and your spouse gather a 5 empty bottles or jars. (The thrift stores are full of them.) The jars should be labeled:

Cost, Company, Food, Entertainment, and About Me

You will each add 3 selections to the cost jar, amounts ranging from 0$ to whatever you decided is the limit.

The next jar labeled company will have each of you adding two papers to the jar, alone is a given and should just be added first. These papers will either list names of other couples or the amount of couples that should be invited. For instance one paper may say, invite Jack and Jill. Another paper may say invite another couple of your choice. This gives you the opportunity to enjoy adult conversation and a chance to be with grown-ups for the night.

The next jar labeled Food should have each of you contributing 4 places to eat ranging in price. If you choose a restaurant that doesn’t coincide with your cost jar you may redraw cost or location.

The next jar label entertainment will have 5 ideas from each of you of things you would like to do on your date. Ideas such as a movie, go carting, hiking, shooting range, sports game, pedicures, etc. This gives each of you an opportunity to contribute what you would like to do, and a chance for your spouse to explore your interests.

Relationship Reconnection: 

For the last jar, you and your spouse each contribute 5 things that your spouse doesn’t know about you. Hobbies, interests, things about your childhood, places you have visited or a hope for the future.