Monday, September 28, 2015

May I Have this Dance?

For this date you will practice letting yourself be vulnerable with your spouse.  This is something not easily done for many couples.  To you trust your spouse?  When you dance together, especially ballroom dance, one of you leads and the other follows.  Can you follow where he leads you?  Guys, can you turn it around and let her lead you around the dance floor? 

Your assignment…sign up for some dance classes.  You choose what kind of dancing you would love to learn.  Go here or here for a couple of places that might have something you are interested in learning.  It will probably take more than one lesson so plan for a series of dates.

Relationship Reconnection Tip:

Vulnerability is often seen as a weakness in a relationship.  But actually it can and should be a strength.  Talk about those areas of your relationship where you feel especially vulnerable.  Are you afraid of showing weakness with each other? Perhaps it will surprise you what your spouse will reveal.  Talk about how you can turn that into a strength in your relationship.  Tonight, be real.  Allow yourself to be vulnerable and practice trust.


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