Wednesday, February 25, 2015

77379 Let your love soar just like a dance


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For this date you can enjoy broadening your horizons and learn new moves on the dance floor to impressive your spouse. At the big Texas dance hall couples can take lessons and learn a variety of different genres of dances all the way from salsa to line dancing. Get your best pair of blue suede shoes and dance the night away!   


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It is far more important to have fun with each other then to be worrying how you look while dancing. Each couple has their own quirks and funny things they do to show their love. You each accept the other and fell in love, embrace all of that into each of your dates. If your core values are based upon doing things together to initiate fondness and admiration, then you would have to do those things frequently. If each spouse values something different, for example (one spouse enjoys dancing while the other enjoys a sporting event) take turns trading off doing those things that the other values. Those values you each hold close to your heart are also the basic foundation of your marriage. Embrace a little change, be playful, and no matter what don't forget why you fell in love in the first place.



As a couple learn how to set goals for couple interaction

Couples can turn toward each other in many ways every day: 
(From Doctors, Gottman & Silver, 1999)

      Respond to bids for attention, affection, humor, or support. If a spouse had a rotten day, a hug and an invitation to talk more about it is sufficient for responding.
      Make an effort to do everyday activities together, like reading the mail or making the bed.
      Have a stress-reducing conversation at the end of the day. This involves reuniting at the end of a busy day to see how things went, and listening to and validating one another.
      Do something special every day to communicate affection and appreciation.

      Keep track of how well you are connecting as a couple emotionally with each other, and make enhancements often to stay connected. (You can even keep track with a journal).


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Doing something special every day will enhance your marriage, it doesn't need to be big either you could simply turn up your favorite love song and let your love soar as you dance in your bedroom or out in the back yard. You also don't need to be a pro dancer to enjoy that time with your spouse. By simply doing this together, it shows that you accept one another even if you're a little bit of a klutz on the dance floor!
Your love needs to be enjoyed every day!

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