Have you ever noticed how hard it is to be kind to others when you're feeling depleted? I have this problem from time to time, but I've noticed that if I take a little bit of time to fill myself back up, then I'm ready to give again.
Go into this date understanding that you and your spouse both have needs, and sometimes either or both of you may be feeling under cared for. Rather than placing blame, take some time together, schedule foot massages at the same time, but just be kind to yourself and your spouse while you each get a little bit of rejuvenation from the experience.
Relationship Reconnection:
After the massage, go to a nice restaurant (look below for a few options near the spa) and just enjoy each other's company. Ask your spouse what helps them to relax, and what you could try to do to help them with that. Stick to one suggestion each, so neither of you end up feeling attacked and then plan to spend the week better meeting that need.
Business Suggestions:
Midtown Reflexology Massages
Uchi-Japanese Restaurant
Oporto Fooding House and Wine
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