Monkey Around Date Night

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What could make you feel young at heart more, than going to the Zoo, and flirting with your date?  For date night this week, take your spouse to The Houston Zoo. They offer free passes every first Tuesday of the month from 2pm to close. The Zoo isn't just for kids in fact, going to the Zoo as an adult can be really fun! When you visit the Zoo with your children, the day tends to get pretty planned out. Suzie wants to see the elephants, Jimmy wants to see the snakes, Bobby wants to see the birds, etc. When you go to the Zoo with children, everyone has their own agenda. When you go on your date night to the Zoo, toss the map, and simply walk around. Don’t plan your visit, just take your time, and enjoy yourselves.

While you are at the Zoo, try strengthening your relationship with your spouse. Think back to when you were dating. Remember that first date, where you were dying to hold hands? Remember resting your hand in places that your date would easily be able to access your hand to hold it? Just because you are married now, doesn't mean that the excitement has to stop. Here is a relationship building activity that is sure to not disappoint: 

Have you ever heard the song by the group, Extreme called, More than Words? In the song it says, “more than words is all I ever needed you to show, than you wouldn’t have to say, that you love me ‘cause I already know”.  I have a simple way that you can show your spouse that you love them, without saying any words. Try giving your spouse’s hand a squeeze three times in a row (for the three words; I, love, you). If your spouse doesn’t get why you are squeezing their hand repeatedly, simply smile and say the words, “I Love You” while squeezing their hand. Try showing your spouse that you are truly listening to them by looking in their eyes as they talk.