As you incorporate novelty into your dates by experiencing
new things together, you can keep your relationship from becoming stale. This
will help you to get out of the grind of everyday life, build more excitement
for each other and start anticipating date nights! One way to do this is to
take horseback riding lessons! Make it a one time experience (30 min-1 hour) or plan a series
of dates where you will receive multiple lessons spread out over weeks or
months.
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Before starting your date, learn about The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse described by John Gottman which are criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling. Every relationship, bad or good, has conflict. But when the Four Horsemen accompany conflict then the relationship can really suffer. Learn about each of these behaviors by watching these videos:
What were the antidotes for The Four Horsemen of the
Apocalypse
that you learned in the first video?
Talk about the antidotes and how The Four Horsemen can be harmful to your relationship.
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