While you’re there, play John Gottman’s 20 Questions Game to help you rediscover your partner’s hopes, joys, stresses, worries, and inner world. Keeping up to date on each other will help keep your relationship out of the "gutter!" This is a way to really "pin" down what your spouse is feeling and thinking- not just learn about their favorite food and movie. After every bowl, take turns answering a question about each other. Either randomly select a number before looking at the questions or simply go straight down the list. Make sure to keep track of points (You receive the number of points indicated at the end of the question if you answer correctly. You get one point if you have a question answered correctly about you.) Add together your points from the 20 Questions Game and your bowling score to get your overall total and see who won!
20 Questions Game
1. Name my two closest friends. (2)
2. What is my favorite musical group,
composer, or instrument? (2)
3. What was I wearing when we first
met? (2)
4. Name one of my hobbies. (3)
5. Where was I born? (1)
6. What stress am I facing right now?
(4)
7. Describe in detail what I did today,
or yesterday. (4)
8. When is my birthday? (1)
9. What is the date of our anniversary?
(1)
10. Who is my favorite relative? (2)
11. What is my fondest unrealized
dream? (5)
12. What is my favorite flower? (2)
13. What is one of my greatest fears or
disaster scenarios? (3)
14. What is my favorite time of day for
lovemaking? (3)
15. What makes me feel most competent?
(4)
16. What turns me on sexually? (3)
17. What is my favorite meal? (2)
18. What is my favorite way to spend an
evening? (2)
19. What is my favorite color? (1)
20. What personal improvements do I
want to make in my life? (4)
21. What kind of present would I like
best? (2)
22. What was one of my best childhood
experiences? (2)
23. What was my favorite vacation? (2)
24. What is one of my favorite weekend
activities? (2)
25. Who is my greatest source of
support (other than you)? (3)
26. What is my favorite sport? (2)
28. What is one of my favorite weekend
activities? (2)
29. What is my favorite getaway place?
(3)
30. What is my favorite movie? (2)
31. What are some of the important
events coming up in my life? How do I fell about them?(4)
32. What are some of my favorite ways
to work out? (2)
33. Who was my best friend in
childhood? (3)
34. What is one of my favorite
magazines? (2)
35. Name one of my major rivals or
“enemies.” (3)
36. What would I consider my ideal job?
(4)
37. What do I fear the most? (4)
38. Who is my least favorite relative?
(3)
39. What is my favorite Holiday? (2)
40. What kinds of books do I most like
to read? (3)
41. What is my favorite TV show? (2)
42. Which side of the bed do I prefer?
(2)
43. What am I most sad about? (4)
44. Name one of my concerns or worries.
(4)
45. What medical problems do I worry
about? (2)
46. What was my most embarrassing
moment? (3)
47. What was my worst childhood
experience? (3)
48. Name two of the people I most
admire. (4)
49. Name my major rival or enemy. (3)
50. Of all the people we both know, who
do I like the least? (3)
51. What is one of my favorite
desserts? (2)
52. What is my social security number?
(2)
53. Name one of my favorite novels. (2)
54. What is my favorite restaurant? (2)
55. What are two of my aspirations,
hopes, wishes? (4)
56. Do I have secret ambition? What is
it? (4)
57. What foods do I hate? (2)
58. What is my favorite animal? (2)
59. What is my favorite song? (2)
60. Which sports team is my favorite?
(2)
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