Project DIY

Many of us in our homes have one thing or another that we would really like to change or get done, but just do not have the time. Why not do something like this together? Dates come in all different shapes and sizes, just like people, and this one may seem strange but just give it a chance!

Each of you make a list of things that you would like to get done around the house, change, decorate, etc. and then collaborate together. Choose one that you would like to work on together for your date that night! The night can then consist of going to get the supplies you need, and then working together on some good old manual labor to complete a project you have been sitting on for who knows how long! This not only gives you the sense of accomplishment for completing this project, but you also did it together and worked as the team that you are!

Don’t Forget to Reconnect!

In light of building things for this date night, take some time to sit and talk together about the foundation and structure of your relationship. What is your marriage founded on? What principles build up the structure of your home and your family? I like diagrams, and one that could be fun to make together is a triangle diagram designed similar to the old food triangle, with a base and different levels leading to the top. Design your own “marriage triangle” including the structures and foundations that you just created for your marriage as a couple. Once complete, keep this a reminder of what you have built together and what you can continue to build as your marriage grows and strengthens!